黃燈扭擰王
最怕人扭扭擰擰，攪了半天，還不能決斷的交出一個答案．至慘就是當你忍不住替他痛下決定時，卻又往往會被怨這怨那，更甚者可能跟你秋後算帳，不說還以為自己犯下天大錯事．
大是大非的問題，的確不宜輕率，時間及情況許可的話，更應多費心神，平衡各方利益．但偏偏扭擰王膠著的，通常只是「到那裡吃飯」、「出街與否」、「幾時睇戲」，又或者「睇邊套戲」這類雞毛蒜皮之事．他們那種「永遠黃燈」的姿態，叫人去又唔係，唔去又唔係．
不好意思直接推人吧！於是就永遠以標準答案「睇下點先」或「到時再算」作結‧最終，每每令到身邊人不知所措．咁究竟「睇下點先」即是點先？你係咪真係會睇下先？如果唔預你到時又會否扯火先？
欣賞人說一就一，說二就二．直截了當地說一句Yes Or No，其實有幾難？
大是大非的問題，的確不宜輕率，時間及情況許可的話，更應多費心神，平衡各方利益．但偏偏扭擰王膠著的，通常只是「到那裡吃飯」、「出街與否」、「幾時睇戲」，又或者「睇邊套戲」這類雞毛蒜皮之事．他們那種「永遠黃燈」的姿態，叫人去又唔係，唔去又唔係．
不好意思直接推人吧！於是就永遠以標準答案「睇下點先」或「到時再算」作結‧最終，每每令到身邊人不知所措．咁究竟「睇下點先」即是點先？你係咪真係會睇下先？如果唔預你到時又會否扯火先？
欣賞人說一就一，說二就二．直截了當地說一句Yes Or No，其實有幾難？
posted by Helmet Jane | 11:56 PM
6 Comments:
sigh, i totally agree with you. you know what, my experience is that i was with two other friends none of whom were willing to give a single suggestion of where to go (not talking about in a trip or what, it's just a day in Hong Kong). I tried to make a suggestion to go somewhere which I guess should be more for their interest. and afterwards one of the 扭擰王 accused me for making them go with me to that place. i was so angry and feeling so wronged that she would think that way cos that place was suggested totally for her and the other 扭擰王.
如果我得到的答案是[睇下點先],或[到時再算],我就預左佢唔去,亦唔會再問第二次.為什麼要為那些咁無誠意既人浪費時間.
扭擰王通常係想留條後路俾自己, 到 last minute 先 make decision.
有d人連飲lemon tea 定lemon water 都要想好lemon 耐架... really cannot understand
我都試過係老麥等我另一半講佢食啲セ!!
係呀,排隊咁耐佢又唔諗定喎!但,重點係:
老麥有幾多嘢揀啫???吹脹!
...不過,有人同我講,浪費時間去等別人做決定,都係一啲溝通嘅必需動作,因為呢個時間,係對方所需要的空間...
而對於一向"快",心急,果斷嘅我哋,睇下有無時間同心情啦!OK嘅咪倍佢hea吓囉!
唔係就理得吖! Say句sorry就下次先啦!
蜜絲拾拾，起碼佢都識得話去麥記，有ｄ人，連去唔去麥記都要諗幾晝．死未！
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